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My ex-husband’s third wife has written me some of the most vile letters I have ever received in my life. 

She has also texted me vile text messages. 

My one son said she didn’t have the “love gene.” My other son said she didn’t have a heart. 

So how do I deal with a heartless and cruel woman?

I don’t fight back.

I realize that she is insecure and trying to start a nasty fight. I tell her to back off and I don’t go down to the level that she wants me to go.

People who don’t love themselves rarely know how to love others. They will project their self-hate onto unsuspecting people with no provocation.

They think that if they intimidate and attack someone who is good that they will defeat them and draw them into being bad like they are.

It is a trap. The best way to get out of a trap is not to walk into it to begin with.